Lately, I’ve been sitting with three words:
Play. Reveal. Slow down.
I’m part of a small group of coaches right now and we’ve been exploring these themes together. It’s been one of those experiences that is subtle but also quietly transformative, both for me and in how I’m showing up with clients.
I’m still in it. Figuring it out as I go. But I wanted to share a bit of what’s been coming up.
Reveal
This one has been more nuanced than I expected.
I’ve always felt like I wear my heart on my sleeve, that people can sense my intentions and how much thought I put into my work.
But the reality is, people only know what you choose to show them.
I’m learning to be more discerning. To reveal things intentionally in a way that actually serves the person I’m talking to. Not over-sharing. Not holding back.
Just choosing what is most useful in the moment.
Play
There is so much emphasis on efficiency in work. Frameworks, templates, repeatability.
And those things have their place.
But I’m noticing, especially in coaching, how limiting that can be when we are working with humans who are complex and different every single time.
I’ve been experimenting more. Letting myself follow intuition. Trying things and adjusting in real time.
Making it less about getting it right and more about being present and responsive.
Slow down
This might be the most challenging, and the most important.
Everything in our world is designed to move quickly.
But the moments that actually create change almost always require slowing down.
Pausing long enough to notice what is underneath.
Giving yourself space to think.
Letting something unfold instead of rushing to solve it.
I’ve been practicing this with clients and with myself. And every time I do, something shifts.
If any of this resonates, if you are craving a bit more space, clarity, or a different way of approaching something in your life or work, I’m offering a handful of complimentary coaching sessions. (link to book)
For you, or for someone you care about.
No pressure. Just a chance to slow down, play with ideas, and maybe reveal something new.
Warmly,
Jenny